Relationships, mental, and physical health

 Right now at this point in my life I am focusing on bettering myself.  I'm working on my mental and physical health.  I think I am slowly making progress.  Other days I am not so sure.  One day I would like to work on dating again. I haven't had the best luck when it has come to men. Part of that is my own fault because I rushed things and didn't get to know them. There were times I didn't respect myself and thought I didn't deserve the best so I settled. Was used, lied to, manipulated,  emotionally abused,  and more. Some things I will not discuss or share. I know now that I deserve someone who is going to accept me for me,  love me back, wants me for more than a piece of meat, respects me, and much more.  Someone who isn't going to lie or cheat on me. I could go on and on. I  know it will happen when it happens. I am not looking for a fling. Enough about that. Writing helps a lot of my mental health.  Walking helps my physical and mental health.  The other thing I am trying to work on is friendships and how to be a good friend.  Also learning how to communicate better with my kids. Sometimes I wasn't listening very well and I am still a work in progress.  Quality time with my kids, family,  and friends mean the world to me. Need to try to work on more quality time with friends.  I know that we aren't always as busy as we think we are.  We have to learn to make time.

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