Amy Stark's Books

 Sometimes you have to just take charge of your life.  If you want to change something you can do it.  It is going to take work though. Sometimes we get lost, make excuses,  and aren't motivated.  The only one who can change us is us. If you want to lose the weight you have to put in an effort.  If you want a relationship or friendship you got to talk and get to know them.  How are you going to know if they like you back if you don't ever say anything?!? People aren't mind readers. They won't know unless you tell them and you may miss that opportunity.  If you want a career you have to work at it. Everything in life takes work and it isn't going to be handed to you.  You can do it though.

 People ask why don't I tell guys that I like them when I do and it's a long story. Here I go. Recently I told a guy that I liked him and it went to crap. We are still friends. Wish I could take it back though because I don't think I was fully ready for him to know and now he does. It makes it a little awkward on my part. He doesn't like me the same way. It is what it is I guess. No one wants that feeling of being rejected and that is how I felt. It really upset me. Thought I would be used to it by now, but that's a lie. I have had plenty of crap relationships. Many of them have made it to where I don't want to feel again and just be numb. Many would get what they wanted,  lied, used, and manipulated me if not worse. Emotional abuse was the worst.  Thought maybe this one will be different or this one will love me. That wasn't the case. Sometimes I did what I did to try to feel something or feel nothing. I thought I deserved it.  I would settle for less than

 In this day and age there is massive quantities of drama. People move on. Stop dragging people into your problems with other people. It is okay to vent about or not like people including yourself.  Not everyone is going to like everyone.  That is okay. Don't stoop to other people's levels. If you can't handle the truth or people who don't sugarcoat things buckle up buttercup because life is going to be bumpy.  Cut yourself out of toxic and negative people's lives. If someone hurt you revenge and hurting them back doesn't solve the problem.  Drama is everywhere in real life and social media. People stop creating problems that don't have to be there. Cut people out,  block them,  and move forward.  Stop thinking they are going to change. Stop excusing the problems. Stop supporting people who are negative and toxic drama queens and kings. They thrive on the attention.  TAKE THE ATTENTION AWAY. Don't stoop to their level.  They aren't worth the time or