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Need to hear actions not just words

Over the years you want to see action rather than hear people tell you what they are going to do because you have been let down, broken and empty promises, told that they would always be there, they wouldn't hurt you, and keep saying sorry. Sometime you just need someone who is going to show up. Someone who picks up the phone and calls or texts you for a change. To be shown that you are loved. Sometimes you do have to walk away without saying anything because they keep using you or taking you for granted.  You don't have to settle for less. Each person deserves the best.

Something about me that y'all might not know

Over the years I used to believe that when people called me crazy that I was crazy which made me lose part of myself. They thought I was crazy because I believed differently than them. It made me feel bad about myself and I just wanted to curl up in a hole. I had people who picked on me for being different which also made me feel bad about myself. Constantly torn down. Got made fun of over how my hair looked, clothes I wore, being myself, called fat, loser, and much more. I started believing them. I struggle with my weight and always have. Tried many different things and sometimes the results would be small. Made bad choices with men. They got what they wanted most of the time. Used me, lied to me, eat up all my food, cheat on me, manipulate, make me not feel good enough, and made me feel unwanted and unloved. I didn't even love myself so at that point in time I had no respect for myself. Thought maybe this guy will be different or maybe this one will love me. I have struggled w

Amy Stark's Booktrailer

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Psychic Vampire Prophecies Volume 1-4

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Hold your head up Stop looking at your feet Walk with your head up Believe in yourself even when no one else does Look in the mirror and tell yourself that you're beautiful Don't give others control of how you see yourself Do it for you and not for them You are beautiful inside and out Don't let them make you feel less You are an amazing person Don't let them strip that from you Be you forever and always.

good morning

Good morning beauties!! Have a wonderful day!!

Description of Psychic Vampire Prophecies by Amy Stark

Alexis and her twin Stephen are eighteen year old psychic vampires who are a part of a prophecy. They are the most powerful of their kind. Alexis has a lot of ups and downs in her life. She has a lot of decisions to make for her age, but handles them the best way she knows how with help and support from her brother and others along the way.

Listen to you kids

Most important thing in parenting is learning to listen. We need to let our kids talk to us and want to talk to us. Need to learn to educate them about the world. Sheltering them won't prepare them. We need to be firm yet their safe place. They need to be heard. If we don't listen they act out negative to get our attention. We need to show them positive and give them positive so they can be positive. They need to hear that they are loved and be told as well as shown by listening.  Don't talk over your child. Let them talk about their day, what they are doing, TV shows, video games, and much more.  They will grow up before you know it. You will blink and want that time back.

Good evening

Good evening beauties!! Hope you have a good night!! Have a good  week and hope you have a good  Monday!!

Make time for family and friends

Don't put off going to see family and friends. Stop with the excuses. Sometimes just a phone call or a text isn't just enough. Go see them. Arrange a movie night. Have a cook out. Do a game night. Make time for them. One day they won't be around any longer. Make time for them now.

Good evening

Good evening beauties!! I hope you are having a wonderful day!!

Psychic Vampire Prophecies Page 1

First page of Psychic Vampire Prophecies Chapter 1 This family isn’t like your average family. They have a secret that they keep to themselves. Their secret is that they are psychic vampires. They felt if they told anyone people would actually think they are crazy when in actuality they they aren’t crazy at all. Their secret could get them locked up in a mental asylum, so they kept it to themselves,so that they wouldn't draw attention to themselves. They live deep in the woods in a small town in Hot Springs, Arkansas. They have a house people would love to live in since it’s so big and spacious. It’s a three-story circular house with ten bedrooms, five bathrooms, a marble spiral staircase, a living room, a huge kitchen, and a study where there are books galore. Outside there are flowerbeds that circle the whole house. There is a stream that flows close by the house, but not directly beside the house. You ha

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Clear mind Hush Silence Not a word Slow thinking Reevaluate All will come to you in silence by-Me #poetry

Parenting vs being the friend

When being parents we want to be the friend to our child, but sometimes we have to stop being the friend because our kids aren't meant to like us all the time. If you don't hear them tell you at least once that they don't like or hate you then you must be doing your job wrong. When they tell you they hate you respond by telling them that is okay and you still love them and if they are acting up tell them that you don't like them for their behavior. We have to set limits. There are times where we can't just buy them anything and everything. We can't always let them get what they want. They need to learn to earn it. You don't want to be ran over so stop letting them run you over. It is okay to take stuff away. It is okay to ground them. I am learning to pick and choose my battles. It is a learning process. There is not always the right thing to say. Spend quality time with them by watching a movie, game night, and stuff like that. Sit and listen to them. Somet

Don't be cruel

Don't be cruel to others because that is a reflection of yourself and how truly miserable you are in your life. Did you know that as people we are more harsh on ourselves than anyone else possibly could ever be? Did you know that words hit harder than a punch to the gut? When you are cruel to others they wonder what is wrong with them or what did they ever do to you that caused you to be this cruel. Does it make it right to be cruel to someone who is cruel to you? No, it doesn't make it okay that they were cruel but you don't have to stoop to their level. Be kind to them. They might need positive and kind people in their lives because they don't hear or see positive kind people. Be kind to people in this cruel world and see how far you can get with kindness.

Good afternoon

Good afternoon everybody!! Have a wonderful day and weekend!!

No such thing as writers block.

There is no such thing as writers block. Only you stand in your own way of writing. Write a sentence a day. When it comes to writing write from the heart because it is important. I find when it seems like I can't write that I just need to take a step back and reevaluate and have fun with it. If you are bored with it then it isn't going to come out right and the same goes if you are trying to force a good thing because you can't force good. Do other stuff that you love to do. Talk to family and friends to see what is going on in their life. Watch a juicy movie. Read a book The best writers read anything and everything. They like diversity. Also communicate with people who might read your books or your work. Take random pictures. Go for a walk. Walk around a store. Do research on what you are writing. Jot down ideas. Have fun doing what you love.

Good evening beauties

Good evening!! I hope that you all had a good day!! Have a good night!!

Be positive in this negative world

There is so much negative going on in the world right now and has been for quiet some time. It is like a virus that spreads. People post it all over the new, newspapers, social media. I would like to see more positive in this world. Talking about small businesses that need help and ways to help them or finding ways to build each other up. Is it that hard to be nice? Do you have to be ugly to people? Do you have to tear people down? How does that look on you? IT is a reflection of the inner you when you talk negative about others. Are you jealous? Are you envious? Do you wish you were them? Are you just that unhappy in your life? Sometimes as people we tear people up because it makes us feel good about us when it really shouldn't feel good about us. Do you stand up when people talk about others? You should especially if the person they are talking about if your family or close friend. Find a way to be more positive in the negative world of ours. Smile at a person, say excuse me if y

Good evening beauties

Good evening beauties!! Hope you have a good night!! Sweet dreams to all of you.

Don't give up and dream

Sometimes we take the wrong road and get lost and think we won't pull ourselves out of the mess that we call our lives. Don't give up hope just because you got lost or took the wrong turn. Sometimes we fail and don't try again. Stop with the negative. Failure is okay and doesn't mean that it is the end. Sometimes failure means new beginnings. In order to get to the good in life sometimes we have to go through trials in our life to where we fall and have to pick ourselves up. We have self doubt or think we can't do it. Constantly beat ourselves up. Don't give up on your dreams or life. Make goals and work towards what makes you happy. You can pull yourself up through the bad and come out on the positive side. Believe that you can do it. Love yourself enough to hang in there and keep fighting to live a positive life. Cut the negative out of your life.

Quality time

Quality time is important to spend with family and friends. Things you can do are watch a movie together, play games like cards, board games, walk together, dinner parties, or various other things. It isn't about the most time you get with people. Why do you ask? You can spend lots of time together and it mean nothing. You want meaningful time together. Just talk. Change it up. You might have different hobbies and you can try what they try or they try what you like. Have fun with it.

Turn the phone off

Sometimes you need to turn your phone off when spending time with family and friends. They might think you are neglecting them. Turn it off to watch a movie or play a game with them. It is rude to be looking at your phone when someone is trying to talk to you. When your kids are trying to get your attention set your phone down and don't answer that text, call, or any other social media. They won't always be kids forever. Go outside with them. Play a game or watch a movie with your kids. Do something interactive. When it comes to family and friends who just call or text ask them to come see you and make plans with them. For those who you meet for the first time or your on a date with or just going to hang out with put your phone away and don't text and call the whole time your there that is a major turn off and might make it to where they might not want to see you again. As people we need to learn to turn off our phones and talk face to face to spend time together as family

Happy Labor Day!!

Happy Labor Day!! Have a wonderful day!!

Good evening

Good evening everyone!! Have a good night!! Hope you all had a good weekend!!

Good evening

Good evening beauties!! Hope you are having a wonderful Saturday!!