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Stop giving negative people on social media attention

 There is so much negative stuff in social media that it gets so ridiculous. Stop giving these people so much attention. They thrive on it. You are making them more famous. It is disgusting. They are human beings. It is down right toxic. Stop spreading hate and negativity. You are enabling these people. Quit it. You are feeding some of their egos. It's like you are patting them on the back and saying this is okay. It is like you are saying this is acceptable behavior. It is not acceptable behavior. Stop being sheep. Quit feeding these people. You are spreading a virus on another level. This is what you call social normal and it isn't normal people. Stop trying to normalize these behaviors. Quit making it out like it is okay to be toxic. Stop making it out like it it okay to spread negativity like it's a virus. Start blocking the ones who are causing the problems. If people would ignore them and stop giving them so much attention imagine how they would act. Just think about

Don't shame people who see therapists

 People need to stop making jokes about people who go to therapy like it's a bad thing because it isn't a bad thing. People who take the steps to get help for their problems are the ones who deserve an applaud. It doesn't make them bad people or crazy people. Stop making it out like you can't get help by seeing a therapist or any type of mental health treatment. Some people need people other than family and friends to talk to. Family and friends don't always listen.  Family and friends are sometimes the problems. Sometimes your family and friends are the ones who caused your trauma. Sometimes people need someone to listen who isn't going to judge. Some of you say get over it, it's all in your head,  your lazy, you should do this or that in your life, and the list goes on. Someone battling depression needs support and not judgment. Yes, people who suffer from depression may seem attention seeking because no one is truly there for them and they feel like a bur

Do what makes you happy

 Sometimes we stand in the way of our own happiness. We do it for many different reasons. Some of it is we think we don't deserve to be happy when we do deserve to be happy. We need to learn to heal and love ourselves. We need to love every part of ourselves even the bad parts and the scars. It is okay that we have failed. It is okay that we've made mistakes. No one is perfect. There is no person who has the right to judge you. Do what makes you happy in your life. You don't have to be fake to fit into the world. So many are fake. So many thrive on drama. Many people are negative. Many people are toxic. So many are full of hate. There is so much greed. Stop promoting fake people. Stop following fake people. Stop feeding the drama. Cut the negative and toxic people out of your life. Shut them out of social media.  Stop promoting negative and toxic people through social media. People thrive off of it and it is disgusting. They will only know one side of a story and condemn pe

Don't let others make you feel less

 No one in this world has the right to make you feel like crap. Stand up to people like that. Set boundaries. Tell them they make you angry and that they don't have the right to talk to you the way they do. You are aloud to have an opinion of your own. Think for yourself.  You are aloud to make your own choices in life.  Do what makes you happy in life and if people don't like it that is their personal problem. They only want to drag people down to their level and they aren't worth the time or energy. Don't waste your time or energy on the toxic and negative behaviors that people want to bring out of you. Keep shining bright in these dark times.

Struggles of SR Year and the rollercoaster

 When it comes to SR Year of High School things start sinking in for the kids especially the closer it gets to time to graduate. It gets overwhelming for them. They are trying to figure out what they want to do for the rest of their life and some don't have it figured out. They have people telling them take your ACTS, apply for scholarships, do job training, do this, or do that, and sometimes it is just to much. Some kids end up quitting because of the pressure or feel like they just can't do it anymore. All of the expectations are just so much. They are getting depressed, anxious, overwhelmed, and a lot of mixed emotions. Are they checking in on the mental health. Parents and teachers I know you care about your kids but sometimes you push so hard and it causes these kids to go into a shell. I think y'all need to start doing a mental check on all students and see how they are mentally doing because High School is rough enough with their peers and their peers expectations of