Family,friends, relationship boundaries

 People we need to start creating boundaries with family, friends,  and partners so we can have healthy relationships and not what the world calls society normal. If you get in a relationship don't isolate yourself from family and friends because you need family and friends.  If they isolate you from family and friends that's a red flag. They should want friends and want you to have friends.  Don't let people run you over. Don't let them make you become dependent on them because if they do that they will use it to control you and you don't need someone controlling your whole life. Don't make excuses for their bad behavior.  Tell them when things bother you or they will keep doing it or cut them out of your life. Be clear in what you want in friends and relationships. Don't settle for less. You deserve to be happy.  You deserve to be loved. If you want to be married and want romance don't let negative people tell you that it's not possible. It is possible at any age even if you haven't found your person. People need to be clear on telling people what they want and if that isn't what they want don't play with people's emotions. As for friends I think some need to learn to communicate also and learn to hang out like they used to rather than shut each other out. Same goes for families. So much lack of communication.  No one has the right to treat anyone poorly and has the right to cut you out of their life. Start rooting family and friends on. Be more supportive. Married people and couples start talking to each other and make time for each other. Have date nights. For all the single people don't give up hope because we all deserve that love. People who are having bad relationships don't be telling your single friends be lucky they aren't married.  It sounds like you need to either get divorced or work on your marriage or get marriage counseling.  No relationship is perfect.  People aren't perfect.  Families, friends, and relationships of any sort take work, communication,  patience,  listening,  less judgment, and ways to work through problems. Sometimes people butt in where they have no business butting in. There are times people give unsolicited advice and aren't listening which is crossing boundaries.  No one wants someone telling them what they should do in their life all of the time especially the ones who aren't living their best lives either. Sometimes you have to create a line and tell people how it makes you feel whether it hurts their feelings because it's hurting you by what they say. No one has the right to make you feel bad about how you live your life when you are trying the best you can.