Why is the world dysfunctional?

 Hello everybody. How are you doing? I hope you are all doing great. If you are doing okay it is better than horrible. I understand these are rough times. That doesn't mean become cold hearted. That does not mean to become cruel to each other. It doesn't mean argue all the time. That does not mean it is okay to go around hating. People wake up. Stop being blind. You are in control of you. Yes, you heard me. No one is in control of what you say or what you do, but you. Now with that being said I have a lot to say. Each and every one of us need to start being kind to one another. Why?  I know you are all questioning why?!?! We all go through struggles each and every day. All of us are going through something and you don't see it. People tend to wear a mask.  They don't want others to see it. Stop being so hateful. Quit being so ungrateful and be grateful for what you have in life. If you need a time out then take a time out and then talk to the people you are arguing with. If you have a problem with people talk to them even if it is hard. Put down your phones when you are spending time with family and friends so you can have time to talk, play games, or watch a movie. People start calling and texting people first. Do not make them do it first all the time. Yes, you may have a job and a family. Make time people. Pick up the phone and call to see how they are doing. They shouldn't have to wait days, months, or years to hear from you. People are losing track of what is important. They wonder why their kids can't communicate. It is due to the fact they put them in front of the TV or any device. We are all guilty of this. Make quality time important. Invite friends to lunch, dinner, movie night, or other things. Include people. The world is becoming dysfunctional. Why is the world dysfunctional? It is due to the lack of communication. People not listening. Some thinking they always have to be right. Not speaking clearly. We need more face to face interaction and it not always be about the phone or social media. People need to learn to support each other by rooting them on in their dreams and goals. If they have a business help support it by sharing their social media posts or flyers. Spread it by the word of mouth. Also buy things from the local people or family and friends. Every little bit helps. Don't expect something for nothing all the time. We need to learn how to put a stop to the hate and bullying. Some people think that is impossible. Guess what it is not impossible. Parents you need to seriously talk to your kids about how wrong it is to bully and that it is not acceptable behavior. Also if you are talking about people or gossiping in front of your child you are teaching them that it is okay behavior. If you make fun of people they think it is okay. They also learn it from others. People stop turning a blind eye to it. It doesn't matter if it's verbal or physical. It is not okay either which way. Bullying people online is not okay either. Tearing people down is not ever okay. It messes with you emotionally and sticks with you for life. Think about that. Have a family sit down and talk about why bullying isn't acceptable. If it is going on at your kids school go to that school and keep going to that school until the problem is taken care of. People make it out like if you tell your a tattle tell. Stop that people. Kids get bullied by other kids by telling is not acceptable. I've seen grown people tear each other down day in and day out. It can be quiet disgusting to watch. They talk behind each others backs and not in a good way, they shame people for their size, tell people they can't do it, and the list goes on. We are all guilty of this. Don't say you aren't guilty. We need to work together to build each other up. Another thing do not shame people who go to therapy or want to go to therapy for their mental health. Stop calling people lazy. You don't know their mental health or physical health problems. Stop calling people crazy, insane, or psycho. Mental abuse is real and it lasts a long time. It doesn't ever go away. Things it can cause are PTSD, Anxiety, Depression, and much more. I hope this reaches many people. Many people need this. The world can be a better place if we just set a better example and try to better ourselves. It starts with us. Everyone needs to stop being toxic to each other. It is okay to cut out toxic people. It is okay to cut out people who don't come see you, call you, text you, or ever check to see how you are doing. It is okay to cut out people who don't support you. It is okay to cut out people who tear you down time and time again. It is okay to tell people no. It is okay to not tell people why you cut them out of your life. It is okay not to deal with drama. Anyone who says otherwise might not understand and that is okay. It is your life and you don't have to explain or tell people anything that you don't want them to know. They don't have the right to know everything about what is going on in your life. Do what is right for you. People stop making excuses not to be there for your family and friends. One day they might have enough because they don't think you care so you won't hear from again or possibly worse. One day they will die and you won't get a second chance. Live life now. Stop putting things off that you think you can do tomorrow. Time is precious. They don't know you care or love them if you don't tell them. They don't know if you care or love them if you don't show them or go to see them. They aren't telepathic. We are not mind readers. Don't wait until it is to late.