Stop trying to prove yourself

 Sometimes people go around saying I'm a nice guy or I'm a nice woman. Nice people don't have stuff to prove to others. Are you really that nice?  What are you hiding? What are you trying to prove? Actions speak a lot louder than words and sometimes words can be hurtful.  Just be yourself.  You have some who claim they are the nicest people and then you get to know them. I am not saying that you might not be nice people. Then some are like why do people run over us or take advantage of us. People prey on people.  Then you have some who say they are nice but they are gaslighting you or narcissistic who want control and play the victim.  Be yourself. Stop worrying so much of what others think of you.  Be kind without needing someone to stroke your ego or help with your insecurities that you might be projecting.  There are good men and women for everyone to be friends with or even have a partnership.  It isn't all about who is nice or mean. It is about forming something that isn't about label's. It is about no judgement. Talking through the bad and good. It is about listening and communicating.  Guess what you need to learn to love you flaws and all. Yes, your self journey might be a hard one and it is worth it because you are worth it. Stop trying to prove yourself to others.  You are not the labels of society.  Society wants labels and people to feel like they have something to prove when in reality being our best selves for ourselves and trying our best is good enough. 

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