Message for people graduating

 All you graduates graduating high school right now and years to come you did it. If you take a gap year and get a job don't let people make you feel bad for your choice. If you choose to go away to college go for it. If you choose trade school that is a choice. Don't let your family, girlfriends, boyfriends,  school, or whomever make you feel like you don't have choices and that you have to choose their way. It is your life. Do what makes you happy.  I know it can all be overwhelming. Senioritis is real. That I am so over being a senior All you graduates graduating high school right nowand you did it. If you take a gap year and get a job don't let people make you feel bad for your choice. If you choose to go away to college go for it. If you choose trade school that is a choice. Don't let your family, girlfriends, boyfriends,  school, or whomever make you feel like you don't have choices and that you have to choose their way. It is your life. Do what makes you happy.  I know it can all be overwhelming. Senioritis is real. That I am so over being a senior in high school and can we just get it over with now moments. You want to have fun but they cram so much into senior year. Just do your best. Keep being you.  Who cares what your parents,  teachers, friends, or partners want you to do. You sometimes have to focus on you. That doesn't mean don't study or do your work. An education is important when going off to get a job in today's society.  Choose to stand out. Make your choices for you. You do have a voice. Don't let others muffle that voice.  high school and can we just get it over with now moments. You want to have fun but they cram so much into senior year. Just do your best. Keep being you.  Who cares what your parents,  teachers, friends, or partners want you to do. You sometimes have to focus on you. That doesn't mean don't study or do your work. An education is important when going off to get a job in today's society.  Choose to stand out. Make your choices for you. You do have a voice. Don't let others muffle that voice. Just because you go to college doesn't mean that you are guaranteed a job. Do they tell you that? Most of the time no. They will hire the person with more experience before they hire the one with a degree usually but it all depends on the field of studies.  If you want something really bad even if you fail try again because sometimes in life we will make mistakes and fail. It is okay to fail and make mistakes.  Keep trying.  If you need help ask for it and don't ever feel ashamed or embarrassed to ask for help. If you can avoid student loans do it at all costs. There are scholarships of many types in the world along with grants so look them up and ask around to see what's available because you don't want to pay off student loan debt for the rest of your life if college is the route you take.  Do whatever makes you happy.  Sometimes you might not like your degree plan and change majors and guess what that is okay. It is okay to go off and learn a trade. Yes, I will tell you change can be hard and it can be overwhelming.  Reach out to people when you feel depressed,anxious, and overwhelmed.  There are people who can help. You don't have to shoulder things alone. Don't get discouraged.  Keep trying.  Trying is good enough. Don't let anyone tell you different. 

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