Some say they are nice and kind when they aren't in reality

 Sometimes people say they are nice and good people when they aren't very nice. What are they trying to prove? People can generally tell if you are nice or good people. Nice and good people don't have to prove that to anyone. I've heard people talk about being nice, good, kind yet tear someone down or make fun of someone in the same sentence. No one is 100% nice or good all the time. Yes, we make mistakes. You don't have to tear people down, make fun of, or other things. Actions speak really loud and words sometimes are empty. Show people quit telling them that you are good or nice. Let people make that choice for themselves. It is about being better than you were before. It is about changing for the better. No one should be made to feel less than. Think before you speak because it may affect someone and they might be struggling. There are good people in the world but some act like good people when in reality they aren't very nice or good people. Some will prey on you. Others think they are above you. You have some who do it for fun and think it is funny to torment others for a laugh. Some make jokes that aren't funny and don't think how it will affect others. You have some who correct others and don't think how it affects that person. We all make mistakes. We're all guilty of doing bad things. That doesn't give people the right to laugh at us, make jokes at our expense, disrespect us, walk over us, tear us down, use us, manipulate, lie, cheat, or abuse us in any shape form or fashion. Learn to be kind and be better versions of yourselves. Learn to reflect. Don't stoop to people's level because it isn't worth it. Just keep being the best you. Some people love hurting others to get a reaction. There are some people who have no empathy or compassion for other people. Some are just down right selfish and greedy. The world doesn't revolve around us. People need to learn that just because they might be struggling and going through bad stuff that doesn't mean it's a competition on who has it worse and there are people out there like that. They will be like you don't understand I have it so bad and it is so much worse than what you are going through. They will list off what all they can't afford or stuff that's broke or every single thing wrong with their body. You can send these people positive vibes and give suggestions and they will keep on with the negative. Then you have people who emotional dump who don't even ask how you are doing and it is all about them for most of the conversation. It can be a bit much. They want to walk all over your personal boundaries. When people disrespect you that is when you cut them out because they will continue doing it. Then you have people online who you try to form friendships with but you aren't sure who is real or fake. Friendship shouldn't be based on me giving you likes on a post, sharing a post, going to your broadcasts, subscribing or any of that. It should be about me asking how you are doing and getting to know you as a person. You have some who won't even add you back or respond to you even though you ask how they are doing, you support them, and much more. Some people need to remember that people have feelings and that everyone matters. People need to learn to be more respectful and not so full of hate, greed, drama, and much more. They need to learn to better themselves to set a better example.