You don't have to share everything

You don't have to share everything with everyone. Why? Many are going to judge you. They say they don't judge but they do. We are all guilty of it in our own way. Do what makes you happy. Stop trying to people please. Quit trying to bend over backwards for people who won't lift a finger for you. Not everyone has to know what you are going through. They aren't entitled to know. They might think they have the right to know every little detail of your life and they don't have that right at all. You don't have to share anything you don't want to share with them. Sometimes we need to keep stuff to ourselves or just share with people we know that aren't going to judge. Some people are so cruel. They are like this is how you should live your life or run your life. What? When did you become an expert on someone else's life? Are you an expert on your own life? I didn't think so. Get in your own lane. Get over there. You heard me. Take your own advice. You are projecting how you think your family, kid, friends, or whoever should live their life. Stop it. People have the right to their own choices to live life the way they choose to live it. You can make suggestions. Some of you are like you should do this and you should do that. Stop it. Maybe you should. Maybe your family, kid, or friend wanted you to just listen. Shut up and LISTEN. Don't tell people what to do. No one likes being told what to do. It's okay to say hey, I have a suggestion you can try it or you don't have to try it. This is why people don't want to tell people stuff. People don't want to share because people want to tell people how to live their lives, their negative, toxic, don't communicate, don't listen, judge people, and the list goes on. This is why I say you don't have to share if you choose not too. People think they have the right to know but in reality they don't have to know everything about you and what is going on in your life. Do what makes you comfortable not them.

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