Better to be single than in toxic and abusive relationships

 It is better to stay single than be in toxic and abusive relationships of any form or fashion. People tend to stay with toxic people or their abusers because they think they deserve it,  they say stuff like we share kids together,  they they have no place to go, and the list goes on.  Don't ever use your kids as an excuse because they aren't stupid and they can see how unhealthy the relationship is for real and you are causing them trauma of their own. Then in the future they think that's how a relationship is supposed to be which isn't fair to them. If you see the signs get out. I know it might be hard. Listen to your gut. No one deserves toxic or abusive relationships.  I understand you might get lonely but we tend to attract the wrong people when we are feeling that way. Being alone is better than being lonely and in a toxic abusive relationship.  Don't ever think that you don't deserve the best because you do deserve the best in life. Go get help. Allow yourself to heal. Get a therapist.  If you can't get away from your partner get the law involved, family, friends, or people who can help. Don't stay. It isn't healthy and it could end up being worse.   No woman, man, or child, or anyone deserves that. No one deserves anyone to use,lie, manipulate, beat,sexually abuse, play mind games, are narcissistic, and worse to them. No one deserves that at all. Everyone deserves someone who loves them for them. Accepts them. Doesn't judge them.  Supports them. Roots them on. Listens to them.  Actually cares. Someone who isn't fake. This is why it is better to be single. Take time for yourself.  Self care isn't selfish.  It is for your mental health. Start looking past looks because looks are deceiving. Dig deeper.  Get to know people.  By 6 months or less true colors Start showing. Some are good with words. Watch them actions. If you feel something is off more than likely it is off. Love yourself enough to know you are worth it and deserve happiness.  

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