Stop treating people like convience

 Don't let people treat you like you are a convience because you aren't one. Phones work both ways. Going to see people works both ways. If you are married, have kids, or significant others don't use them as an excuse either.  If your friends are married, have kids,or significant others then maybe include them also. Have get together. Cook out, have game nights, or whatever.  Don't use your job as an excuse either. Everyone needs a break sometimes.  Don't have family or friends constantly asking how you are or inviting you to stuff. Take time out to ask how they are doing and invite them or make them feel included. The world doesn't revolve around any of us. Start acting like you care or they will think you don't care at all. If you don't call,text, or go see people how do they know. You can post on social media but not call,text, or go see family or friends which is what is wrong with the world. No one is communicating.  They read a text and take it out of context because they don't see your facial expressions. People aren't going to sit around waiting on you if you aren't putting any effort into the friendships or relationships.  Why should they put their life on hold or hold their breath? They shouldn't put their life on hold. If they aren't there anymore you should know why.