Sometimes you can't help others

 Sometimes we can't help others and we have to walk away because they are taking us down with them.  If they don't want help there is nothing you can do.  You can give all the advice and tell them how to get help.  If they don't want that help it's in one ear and out the other.  You don't need to sacrifice your happiness to help people who won't help themselves.  Sometimes we think I can help them or fix it.  It becomes a habit. You end up drained, miserable,  doing things out of character,  and losing a piece of yourself.  It is okay to stop talking to people and not telling them why because more than likely they know what they did wrong. It is okay to cut toxic people out of your life.  You don't owe anyone anything.  You deserve to be happy.  If these people want to change they have to do it for them.  Sometimes helping isn't help and we enable them.  Stop making excuses for people. Sometimes people need a therapist, rehab,psychiatrist, or doctors to help them.  Don't bend over backwards for people.  Stop making excuses that it is okay for people to take advantage of your kindness.  Stop making excuses that you deserve this when you don't.  Everyone deserves the best. You can care about people from a distance.  If they don't respect you they aren't worth your time or effort.  Don't settle for less than you deserve.  You deserve happiness and love.

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