Questioning friendship

 Here lately I have been questioning who my real friends are in real life and online.  So many times I have heard people say I will come hang out with you,  but they don't make the time to. Many times I have called or text first. When it comes to calling or texting me most don't check on me first.  So many use the excuse of I am bad about calling or texting first. The phone works both ways just like going to visit people. If you have time to post on social media or play games on phone then take a break and check on your family and friends. Check on people who do take the effort to take time out of their lives to see how you are doing. People need to learn how to stop being busy and take a breath. Enjoy the people who love and care about you.  Stop making excuses not to be there for each other.  It's hurtful when you text people and they leave you on read for days. It's hurtful when people say they will be there and they aren't there. It hurts when you support people who don't support you equally.  Everyone should support each other equally. When it comes to social media some say they will support you equally, call you friend, make it out like they always have your back. I have seen people who change for the worst. They end up just being about fans and treat people who thought they were friends like a fan not a friend.  Get caught up in likes or views. Get to where they prefer quantity over quality. It is truly sad. Some start treating people ugly or make fun of others.  It is horrible. The world doesn't revolve around any of us. Stop wasting people's time if you truly aren't going to be there. Start making time for people who love and care about you because if you don't one day they might cut you out of their lives or they might die and you won't get another chance. Think about that.  You might miss out on a future girlfriend,  boyfriend, husband,  wife, friend,  or other. It is not hard to text and say, hi or how are you? Can we hang out? Eventually sorry won't be enough.  Sorry doesn't always fix it.  Show people you love and care about them. Don't have expectations of others because it will always lead to disappointment.

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