Amy Stark's Books

 Sometimes you have to just take charge of your life.  If you want to change something you can do it.  It is going to take work though. Sometimes we get lost, make excuses,  and aren't motivated.  The only one who can change us is us. If you want to lose the weight you have to put in an effort.  If you want a relationship or friendship you got to talk and get to know them.  How are you going to know if they like you back if you don't ever say anything?!? People aren't mind readers. They won't know unless you tell them and you may miss that opportunity.  If you want a career you have to work at it. Everything in life takes work and it isn't going to be handed to you.  You can do it though.

 People ask why don't I tell guys that I like them when I do and it's a long story. Here I go. Recently I told a guy that I liked him and it went to crap. We are still friends. Wish I could take it back though because I don't think I was fully ready for him to know and now he does. It makes it a little awkward on my part. He doesn't like me the same way. It is what it is I guess. No one wants that feeling of being rejected and that is how I felt. It really upset me. Thought I would be used to it by now, but that's a lie. I have had plenty of crap relationships. Many of them have made it to where I don't want to feel again and just be numb. Many would get what they wanted,  lied, used, and manipulated me if not worse. Emotional abuse was the worst.  Thought maybe this one will be different or this one will love me. That wasn't the case. Sometimes I did what I did to try to feel something or feel nothing. I thought I deserved it.  I would settle for less than ...

 In this day and age there is massive quantities of drama. People move on. Stop dragging people into your problems with other people. It is okay to vent about or not like people including yourself.  Not everyone is going to like everyone.  That is okay. Don't stoop to other people's levels. If you can't handle the truth or people who don't sugarcoat things buckle up buttercup because life is going to be bumpy.  Cut yourself out of toxic and negative people's lives. If someone hurt you revenge and hurting them back doesn't solve the problem.  Drama is everywhere in real life and social media. People stop creating problems that don't have to be there. Cut people out,  block them,  and move forward.  Stop thinking they are going to change. Stop excusing the problems. Stop supporting people who are negative and toxic drama queens and kings. They thrive on the attention.  TAKE THE ATTENTION AWAY. Don't stoop to their level.  They aren't worth...

 People argue and fight.  It is a part of life. It is our choice on whether we stay mad or not. It is okay to get mad. Words cut deep. We can't take them back. Sometimes we don't think before we speak. Sometimes we rant and rave which is okay but we have to live with what we say.  By letting others get to you then you give them the power over you.  It is okay to not like what others say to you.  We are in control of what we say and our emotions.  Don't let others rule it because by doing so they win because they got to you.  They got under your skin.  You can be mad at them and not feed into them. Sometimes we have to take a time out and just breath.  I understand it can be frustrating and like everyone is against you. There are people who are listening and want the best for you.  It is okay to express that you are angry.  Your feelings matter. Sometimes we just have to come back and talk about it when we are level headed and not in...

 Spread the love and light to all around you. Everyone across the world needs love and light. The struggles in life for people are real every day problems. They might trying to self medicate or not even want to live anymore. Maybe you ca make a difference in their life. If they don't want to change for them take a step back. Don't enable them. They have to want to change for them. Sometimes smiling at someone can make their day. Telling people to have a wonderful day goes a long way. Listen to others when they need someone to listen. Be kind to others. Even the people are being ugly be kind. It is a reflection of themselves. We don't have to stoop to the level of the ones who talk badly about us. We are not in control of others and what they say. They are entitled to their opinion of us just as we are of them. None of us are perfect. We are all trying to live day by day trying to survive and it isn't always easy. We are our own worst enemies without needing help.Just be...

 It may be hard to stay positive in such a negative world but in order to change it we need to spread positivity to the world.  People ask how you do that and it's simple.  Cut toxic people out of your life.  Stop giving them attention.  The more attention you give it the more hatred people spread.  It starts with us making those changes. We do it by being kind to others.  We all have struggles.  You don't always see it because people put on a mask. You can make a difference. It is about supporting others and having respect.  Everyone is special and deserves love. 

I did a little bit more writing on Psychic Vampire Prophecies and about finished up with another chapter.  Right now they just finished Thanksgiving and starting to decorate with the town.