Don't let others steal your happiness

 Don't let others be the reason that you aren't happy in your life.  It's true when they say misery loves company.  Many are going to talk badly about you, start rumors,  and gossip about you. Don't entertain them.  The more you entertain them they feed off of it. They thrive on the attention.  You're giving them what they want.  They want a reaction.  These type of people usually think the world revolves around them. Some like to play the victim for more attention.  These people have narcissistic behavior.  They live for chaos and discord. Don't give them control.  You are in control of you and they are in control of themselves.  We can't control anyone's behavior other than our own. It's okay to defend yourself and move on.  You've got the emotional dumpsters who will dump all over you and not listen to you. That falls back under the category that they think their problems are either worse than yours and other things. The world doesn't revolve around any of us. You've got ones who are jealous so they make it out like they are competing with you. Life isn't about the one up game of I can do anything you can do better at all. It's about focusing on yourself and supporting each other if you truly are friends and this applies to family also. People who are jealous get petty. They can be down right savage and ugly. The little green monster shows very well.  This all stems from people having low self esteem, insecure in their own lives, and miserable.  Some people not all people who are miserable will try to drag you down with them. Do what makes you happy.  It's okay to listen to people's advice if they have your best interest at heart. Don't collect red flags because you think that is what you deserve.  Don't believe that you deserve people treating you poorly.  You deserve people who accept you with no judgement, accept you for you, actually love you,  care about you, support you, listen,  communicate,  work through problems,and much more. People who don't have expectations of you. It is okay to ignore people,  block them, cut them out of your life, and to stand by your boundaries.  You don't owe anyone any explanation on what you're doing in your life.  You don't need people's validation.  Do what makes you happy.  At the end of the day we're the ones who have to live with our actions and words. We all have struggles and no one needs extra added stress. Some people will always be ugly because of how they treat others. Surround yourself by people who help you grow as a person. You deserve your best life without people causing you stress. 

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