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Not everyone is for you

 Some people in life aren't meant for you. You will constantly have people coming and going in and out of your life. Not everyone is made for you. That is okay. Do not blame yourself for others actions.  Sometimes it isn't that they are bad people.  There are times people just grow apart.  Sometimes you lose contact to not ever hear from them again.  Others it is a learning experience. There are ones who don't respect boundaries.  Others might use you. The ones who prey and take advantage of you. Some who lie. Others who walk all over you.  Don't change to fit in. Don't bow down to others. Don't think you deserve bad because you don't deserve bad. Let people have their opinion of you and ignore them. Keep being the best you for you. There are good people in a world full of hate.

Don't let others steal your happiness

 Don't let others be the reason that you aren't happy in your life.  It's true when they say misery loves company.  Many are going to talk badly about you, start rumors,  and gossip about you. Don't entertain them.  The more you entertain them they feed off of it. They thrive on the attention.  You're giving them what they want.  They want a reaction.  These type of people usually think the world revolves around them. Some like to play the victim for more attention.  These people have narcissistic behavior.  They live for chaos and discord. Don't give them control.  You are in control of you and they are in control of themselves.  We can't control anyone's behavior other than our own. It's okay to defend yourself and move on.  You've got the emotional dumpsters who will dump all over you and not listen to you. That falls back under the category that they think their problems are either worse than yours and other things. Th...

September

 Have a wonderful September beauties!! May your goals and dreams become a reality.  I hope that this month is a happy one for you.