Parenting advice

Some of you parents need to stop being the friend and start being the parent. You are letting your kids get a way with to much. You let them dress inappropriate, talk how they want, play whatever video game, watch whatever movie, watch whatever TV show, interrupt, and much more.
Set boundaries. Your kid doesn't need to watch whatever and play just whatever. Do you even check their social media? Do you monitor them? Do you know who their friends are? Do you know the parents? 
Back to setting boundaries. You need to also set limits. 
I am not saying do not let them express them selves. Let them be individuals. Let them have choices when it comes to their clothes but sometimes make it more reasonable. I see some that their clothes are hanging off their butt or so short that everybody can see. People need to learn to respect each other but you also need to teach your child some respect. Teach them manners of how to say please, thank you, yes ma'am, no ma'am, yes sir, no sir, open doors, to hold doors for women, and much more. Teach them some morals. Teach them some responsibility for their actions.
There is a time to be a parent and a friend. 
LISTEN TO YOUR KIDS!!
PAY ATTENTION!!
If you don't like what they are doing on social media delete it. If they have a phone and act out then take that phone. IF they misuse any device take it away. You pay the bills not them. Check their history. Check their text. It is not an invasion of privacy. They are a kid. There are bad people on the internet. There are bad people at school. Kids get bullied at school every day through social media. Kids commit suicide because people make fun of them at school or on social media.
 TAKE IT SERIOUS!! IT IS NOT A JOKE!! IT HAPPENS MORE THAN YOU PAY ATTENTION. 
WHAT IS SAID ONLINE STICKS FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. YOU TAKE A PICTURE IT CAN BE PASSED AROUND AND YOU WON'T EVER LIVE IT DOWN.


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